As I reflect on the court case between Innocent Ndingani and Memory Mawarire, I am reminded of the timeless wisdom shared by Hopewell Chin’ono about the importance of a man’s role in providing for his family. According to Chin’ono’s father, a man is naturally designed to be the provider, and this role is not just about financial support, but also about leadership and responsibility.

Chin’ono’s father used the analogy of a bus driver who marries a doctor out of love. In this scenario, the bus driver’s role is to provide for his wife’s fundamental needs, even if she is a high-earning professional. This analogy highlights the natural order of things, where men are expected to take on the role of providers and leaders in their families.

Providing for one’s family is not just a financial responsibility, but also a matter of pride and dignity. When men fail to provide, they not only compromise their family’s well-being but also their own sense of purpose and identity. This is why it’s essential for men to take their role as providers seriously and prioritize their family’s needs.

The court case between Ndingani and Mawarire serves as a reminder of the importance of communication, cooperation, and mutual respect in relationships. However, it also underscores the need for men to reclaim their natural role as providers and leaders in their families. By doing so, men can restore the natural order of things and ensure that their families thrive.

In conclusion, the natural order of things dictates that men are designed to be providers and leaders in their families. This role is not just about financial support, but also about leadership, responsibility, and pride. By embracing this role, men can fulfill their purpose and ensure that their families prosper. As Hopewell Chin’ono’s father wisely said, “A man’s worthiness is stripped away when he cannot provide.”

‘ learn or  perish’

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