Gospel musician Mambo Dhuterere has finally spoken out about leaving his heavily pregnant wife, Dorcas Vambe. He claims she’s toxic and cost him financial opportunities by dressing down people who wanted to work with him. Mambo Dhuterere said, “Unoita mukadzi wekuti anonyatsokuziva kuti nhingi nanhingi vanoda kukusimudza murume wangu whole hearted. Vanhu ivava vononyon’onywa zvekuti kana vari vasina kusimba unongoona va disappear. Kana vari vamwe ndo vanokuudza kuti, ‘Tanga tichida kushanda tese asi mashoko ataudzwa na Amai’.”
Mambo Dhuterere says Mai Dhuterere’s behavior is unbearable, but some Zimbabweans aren’t buying it. They think he’s just making excuses because he’s fallen out of love.
Toxic Relationship or Toxic Excuses? Some commenters defended Mambo Dhuterere, saying he has the right to leave a toxic relationship. Others called him out for blaming his wife for his own problems.
The comments section was abuzz with opinions about Mambo Dhuterere’s decision to leave his heavily pregnant wife. Some defended him, saying he had the right to leave a toxic relationship. Joey Tanae Countries quipped, “Kana apedza newe murume even toilet chaiyo ukaenda imhosva,” Perfect Linette Sedze chimed in, “They will always find a reason to blame you kana vasisakude ava”.
Others took a more nuanced approach. Nya Sha asked, “Saka murikuti just because he is man haatadzirwe nemukadzi?” This comment highlighted the complexity of relationships and how both partners can contribute to problems.
Joseph Ruzvidzo Nyoni shared a different perspective, saying, “Judge how you want. But akutaura chokwadii. Zvinhu zvaurikutaura zviriko mudzimba umu.” He added, “I personally know a man arikutambura nenyaya yemkadzi waanaye and he doesn’t know it.” This comment suggested that relationship issues can be multifaceted and not always straightforward.
DG Masiziva took a more empathetic approach, saying, “I stopped judging people with the rate yema suicide evarume atirikuona mazuvano. Let women speak and let men speak.” This comment highlighted the importance of understanding and compassion in relationships.
The Verdict’s Still Out
As the comments section showed, opinions about Mambo Dhuterere’s situation are divided. Is he a victim of circumstance or a master of excuses? Only time will tell.
